Most are the time when kids are so much with their mother and the father seems not to be sharing a significant part in the kid’s life. Dads may not like to show much emotion, but they love their kids just as much as the mothers. A fathers love is more or less the same as that of a mother and that is why doing some of these things may be an expression of how much you appreciate your fathers love. The following are a few ways that you can show your father that you love him.
Ask him anything
It is good to show you dad that you know he is part of your life. Dads love to be needed and to be seen as wise or important. Asking your dad anything can be a way to try to accommodate him in your space.
Make it a habit to from time to time. This will not only show that you think of him but he will feel the love and how much you care about him.
Involve him in Decision making
When was the last time you involved your dad in let’s say deciding the kind of career path you want to follow? Involving your father in the process of making decision is not only healthy but is also his right as a parent.
Spend some Quality time with your Dad
You can maybe go out and have a kid-dad moment. Try to do some bonding and by this I mean if you were not moving on the same lane you can clear things and maybe you can also get to share or update him about everything that is going on in your life.
Don’t forget his Birthday
Do call him on this special day, you can also go ahead and buy or make him birthday cards. Show him that you could not forget his special day. This will show him how much you appreciate him.
Learn your Dads Nature
Dealing with your father is not the same as dealing with your mother. Learn to know your dads nature, know what makes him happy or how he express his happiness. It may be hard for him to express his emotions as you may want him to and understanding this may be for the better cause.
No one said he is an angel and he is bound to wrong you. Do not take the grudge too far but learn to forgive him understanding he is human.
Share with him.
Learn to update him on what is going on in your life. If there is something worrying you let him know and he can advise on what to do.
Don’t forget tradition
Remember to always follow traditions that he taught. May it be thanksgiving, having a family dinner and a family vacation these are things that you should not forget
There is nothing that he can appreciate than learning that you respect him.
Father’s love is equally important as the mother’s love that is why your dad need to be reminded that the love he gives is reciprocated.