101 Interesting things to talk with your Girlfriend

101 Interesting things to talk with your Girlfriend

101 Interesting things to talk with your Girlfriend: We have all had relationships in our lives…Right? And we must not deny that there are millions of emotions that come with them.  Aha…We are talking about small fights as a result of maybe misunderstanding, silly conversations and more often happy moments. But how often have we encountered boring communications? How often have we struggled to spice up a boring relationship?

Let’s all agree……….Sometimes the first meet up can be very tense especially for the girl. But before you can settle in into the dating here are some interesting things you can choose to engage her. Maybe they could ease her tense emotions: –

101 Interesting things to talk with your Girlfriend
  1. Job or work

Huh…..You are not sure if she is in employment. But nevertheless, what about asking her something like: –

  • What do you do with yourself? And how long have you been doing it?
  • What do you love or hate most about what you do?


  1. Hobbies

Everyone has an informal part of their lives. So what can you ask on this?

  • How do you unwind from a busy schedule?
  • How did you develop your hobbies?

  1. Food

We all love good food. Right! So how about asking:

  • Do you like cooking and what kind of food do you enjoy most?
  • What are some of the weird dishes you have tried?
  • What is your take about eating in restaurants?


  1. Relationships

It sounds a catchy thing. Ok? But you don’t have to be specific. So you can go like: –

  • What turns you off about a guy?
  • Do you prefer a trendy guy or one who just maintains themselves simple?
  • What is the first thing you notice about a guy?


  1. Family

We are all born in a family set up. You can consider asking things like: –

  • How many are you in your family?
  • Do you have family gatherings and how many in a year?
  • What family traditions do you have?
  • How far do you live from your family?

  1. Holidays
  • Which are some of the best places you have visited on holiday?
  • How often do you go on holiday?
  • Do you prefer singlehood holidays or with friends?


  1. Shopping

Think about the interesting feeling, which comes about with shopping! And here is what to ask: –

  • What is your preference in shopping? In person or online?
  • Are you a random shopper or you plan first before shopping?
  • When was the last time you went shopping?


  1. Current Situation

We all have things in our lives in the current day. So what about creating a story from these things? However, questions on current situation will depend on the very current event for example eating, listening or playing music etc.

  1. Clothes

We all love looking good. Right! So here we go: –

  • What is you trend in terms of clothes?
  • Do you prefer readymade cloths or self styled?


  1. Music
  • What kind of music do you like listening to?
  • Do you have a preferred genre or band?
  • How often do you attend life performances?


  1. Learning/School
  • What was your best subject when in school?
  • Were you a fun of practical subjects or theories?
  • If you were to change your career based on what you learnt in school, what would it be?

  1. Friends
  • How often do you connect with your childhood friends?
  • Do you have a best friend and how long have you known each other?
  • Do you have more of male or female friends?


  1. Talents and skills
  • What skill do you think are your best?
  • Do you have any unusual talents, which you feel you have not utilized?
  • Are you planning on learning any new skills apart from what you have already acquired?


  1. Languages
  • Which do you think is the hardest language to learn?
  • Are you interested in learning a new language and which one?
  • What languages do you think should be compulsory in schools?


  1. Free Time
  • How do you spend your free time? Do you prefer having some ‘me time’ or checking out on friends?
  • Do you think you always get a good share of free time?

  1. Movies
  • What excites you about movies?
  • Who is your favorite actor/actress?
  • Are you a fun of movies?


  1. Pet Peeves
  • What kind of things bugs you from your co-workers or roommates?
  • What kind of things makes you get goose pimples?
  • What is rudeness to you?


  1. Singing
  • Are you a singer or you preferred listening?
  • Do you sing in the bathroom or in the car?
  • Can someone learn to sing or singers are born?
  1. Leadership?
  • Do you think leaders are born or made?
  • Have you been a leader before and what was your experience?
  • Do you prefer being at the front or at the back?

  1. Sleep
  • Are you a early or later sleeper?
  • What is the longest you have gone without sleeping?
  • What do you do to get good sleep in the night?


  1. Internet things
  • Are you a fun of goggling?
  • What is the funniest or weirdest thing you have Googled?
  • Do you think Google searches should be made public?


  1. Animals
  • Do you have favorite animals?
  • What animals would you love to keep as pets?

  1. Phones
  • How often do you buy new phones?
  • What do you look for whenever you want to buy a new phone?
  • What features interest you most in a phone?
  1. Use of Social Media
  • What social media platform do you use most?
  • How much time do you think you spend on Social Media and doing what?
  1. Apps
  • Which is your favorite App?
  • How often do you use Apps for you day to day activities?
  • How important do you think Apps are?


We all have a history. Ok! So you may want to ask her a little bit about themselves. Mmmh! But hey! don’t get too personal lest they think you want to date them. And here are some interesting topics you can talk about:

  1. Accomplishments
  • What kind of awards have you accomplished in your past and which makes you proud?
  • Are planning on trying to accomplish something else in the near future?
  1. Where they grew up
  • How did you like the neighborhood from which you grew?
  • What memories do you have of your childhood neighborhood?
  • What is your current hometown?


  1. Privacy
  • Are you a private person or you have nothing to hide?
  • Do you think privacy should be warranted?


  1. Swimming
  • Where do you go for swimming and how often?
  • How did you learn how to swim?
  • How often do you go swimming and how deep can you?


  1. Fame
  • What is your thinking about being famous?
  • What must someone do to be famous?
  • What do you think are the pros & cons of being famous?


  1. Beauty & Art
  • What is your definition of beauty?
  • What do you think makes a piece of art beautiful?
  • What is the most beautiful think in your life?


  1. Diet
  • What diets do you think are popular?
  • Do you think dieting is a good way of loosing wait?
  • What are some of the craziest diets you have tried?


  1. Gifts
  • What is the best gift you have received and from who?
  • What is the most expensive gift you have given to someone?
  • What is your preference – gift or money equivalent to the gift?


  1. Personality
  • What is your best personality?
  • How often do you interact with people who have foul personalities?
  • Whom do you take after in your personality?


  1. Success and failure
  • What is your biggest success so far?
  • What are you working on in terms of success?
  • How do you measure success?
  • Have you suffered any failures in your life?


  1. Vacations
  • Where would you want to go for a vacation in the near future?
  • Do you love vacations in strange places or in those that you know about?
  • Beach, mountains or valleys? What is your preference for a vacation?


  1. Cars
  • What kinds of cars excite you the most?
  • Are you a speeding driver?
  • How often do you take drives?


  1. Children
  • Do you love children?
  • What kind of names would you give to your children?


  1. Parenting
  • What are your thoughts on co – parenting?
  • Do you think it’s wise to adopt children?




  1. Religion
  • What is your take on religion?
  • How do you equate the importance of religion?
  • How comfortable are you with other people’s religion?


  1. News
  • How often do you watch news?
  • What news do you think is given very little airtime?
  • What news gets more attention?


  1. Books
  • What are your favorite types of books?
  • Which book are you reading now?
  • What books would you recommend are a must read?


  1. Challenges
  • What is the most challenging thing about your life?
  • What challenges did you face when growing up?
  • Which is more challenging for you – Living in the present or in the future?

Well, there are other questions that are applicable in sparking off a woman’s emotions.

  1. What do you think about natural beauty?
  2. Did you ever have a crush on a male teacher, neighbor or workmate?
  3. How do you vent out your anger?
  4. How many times have you lost your mobile phone?
  5. How would you define a great relationship?
  6. What is the most courageous step you have taken in your life?
  7. What is the worst injury you have had in your lifetime?
  8. Christmas/ holidays

How are your Christmas preparations going?

What plans do you have for the New Year?

  1. What gives you the greatest joy in life or what makes you the happiest?
  2. Is it more important to be respected or loved?
  3. Are you a person who does their duty or forges their own path?
  4. What one thing would you change in your life at the moment?
  5. If you could go back in time, what one thing would you change?
  6. What would you do if the US President or another known person showed up right now?
  7. Have you ever seen a monkey acting human?
  8. Music/movies
  • What movies have you seen lately?
  • What’s on your music playlist at the moment?
  • What are your 3 favorite movies?


  1. Which of your friends are you proudest of?
  2. What’s the right age to get married?
  3. Who would you like to live like for a day?
  4. Would you rather live for a week in the past or the future?
  5. If you could ask your pet 3 questions, what would they be?
  6. When you’re having a bad day, what do you do to make yourself feel better?
  7. Would you rather win an Olympic medal, an Academy Award or the Nobel Peace prize?
  8. What is the sound you love the most?
  9. Do you ever talk to yourself? When and what do you say?
  10. If you could choose your own nickname, what would it be?
  11. If you could eat only 3 foods for the rest of your life, what would they be?
  12. What’s your favorite ice cream flavor?
  13. Celebrities
  • Which celebrity do you admire the most and why?
  • Name a celebrity you think is lame.
  1. Season
  • Which yearly season do you wish had extra hours?
  • What is your favorite time of day and why?
  1. If you could ask the President one question, what would it be?
  2. Do you ever count your steps when you walk?
  3. What personal trait has gotten you in the most trouble?
  4. What do you like to do on a rainy day?
  5. What is the best part of being a part of your family?
  6. What product do you love the most such that you would be very happy to be the company’s spokesperson?
  7. Which of the seven dwarfs is most like you?
  8. Whose parents did you or do you wish you had and why?
  9. What fictional character do you wish you could meet?
  10. Want is the best part about having siblings?
  11. Do you sleep with your sheets tucked in or out?
  12. Who is your favorite athlete?
  13. Would you rather be the best player on a horrible team or the worst player on a great team?
  14. What is your favorite smell?
  15. Who is the funniest person you know?
  16. If you could be a cartoon character for a week, who would you be?
  17. Which historical figure would you like to be?
  18. On a scale of 1-10 how strict are your parents?
  19. What are your fears in life and have you had anyone experience some of them?
  20. Who is the most boring person you have encountered in your life?
  21. If you were to be born again would you still prefer to adopt the name you have now?
  22. What is the worst thing you have done in darkness?
  23. What is the most embarrassing childhood memory?
  24. What is the one choice you have regretted to date?
  25. Using one word how would you describe your family?
  26. What is one food you could never bring yourself to eat?
  27. Which is worst insult you have heard?
  28. Cake or pie?